Your perfectionism is a gift.
Feeling like enough is what lets you wield it.
Coaching for driven women ready to keep their drive and drop the inner critic that comes with it.
You’re not the only one who feels this way.
You know what to do.
You’ve tried to:
Take better care of yourself
Stay consistent
Get back into a routine
And for a little while… it works.
Until life gets busy.
You miss a day. Then another.
And suddenly you’re starting over. Again.
The struggle is real.
And it’s not just frustrating.
It’s what happens after that really gets you.
The voice in your head starts up:
“Why can’t I just stick with it?”
“What’s wrong with me?”
“I should be better than this.”
So you try again. Push harder.
And eventually?
You burn out…or give up.
Not because you don’t care
But because you’re exhausted from being so hard on yourself.
This isn’t about discipline.
It’s about how you’re treating yourself.
Because when you:
Stop the all-or-nothing thinking
Let go of the self-criticism
Learn how to support yourself instead of tearing yourself down
Everything starts to change.
Are you stuck?
You feel selfish investing in your own health and well-being
You feel guilty when you take time for yourself
You are overwhelmed and don’t know where to start
You think you need to do it alone
Take the quiz and find out what it is costing you to stay that way
What if you could choose yourself and go from stressed and running on empty to confident, energized, and in control of your time and energy?
This is the new you!
Expanded self-confidence
A life aligned with your truest self
You’re making a difference in the world with your gifts
Hi, I’m Lori.
Perfectionism & Self-Worth Coach for Driven Women
For a long time, I thought my perfectionism was the problem.
I was the woman who held it all together. The driven one. The one with the standards, the follow-through, the care that no one else seemed to bring to the room. And underneath it, I was exhausted. I was hard on myself in a way I would never be hard on anyone I loved. I thought the answer was to be less, to do less, to want less.
The funeral I missed taught me otherwise.
A former colleague had passed away. I had gained a few pounds. And I was so ashamed of how I might look that I did not go.
That stayed with me for a long time. Not because I had failed to show up. Because I had let my self-criticism cost me a goodbye I could not take back.
That was the moment I understood.
My drive was not the problem. My drive was the reason I cared, the reason I worked hard, the reason I held my standards. The problem was the voice that decided my worth was conditional on how I looked, how much I weighed, how perfectly I performed.
The work I do now is the work I had to learn the hard way.
I help driven women separate the gift from the punishment. We keep the drive. We keep the high standards. We keep the deep care. What we drop is the inner critic that hijacks all of it, and the conditional self-worth that has been running underneath.
I am a National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach with over six years of experience. I am known as The Enough Coach because that is what my clients need to come home to. Not less ambition. Not lower standards. Just the deep, unshakeable knowing that they are already enough, exactly as they are, before they do another thing.
If you are tired of using your drive to make yourself wrong, I would love to meet you.